I hate being compared to my father

2021.11.28 01:47 Mental-Independent-5 I hate being compared to my father

I resemble my father looks wise and we are both introverted. By what my mother has told me he is a useless crazy abusive alcoholic, and since my parents separated when I was 3 I have no idea what he was really like. Throughout my life I’ve always been compared to him when my mother is very upset at something I did. I don’t mean to sound like a saint but I am extremely respectful to her and I try to avoid talking to her at all costs. Everytime I am told to do something I always listen and I do it right away. On the other hand, my siblings have a very hard time listening and they are always getting yelled at to do simple chores. One time when I was in 8th grade my mom found out I snuck back my phone when she took it from me for 2 months and she told me she would send me to my dad so I can drink with him. When I was in middle school she would always threaten to send me to him knowing how abusive he is and this made me grow up in fear of doing anything wrong because I was scared of being sent away. This made me very sneaky and I feel like I’m living a double life. Also yesterday was thanksgiving and my aunts (my dad’s sisters) have a habit of calling me their “big brother” aka their my dad. I feel like they have some sort of fascination with me because I resemble their brother and it is so weird to me.
Can anyone relate of any of this?
Am I wrong for not wanting to be compared to my father?
Is this narcissistic?
Any thoughts and commentary is welcome.
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I am married. have been married 15 years and have a kid. sadly not very happy in the marriage and it gets lonely thus why i am here looking to make new friends and have someone to be able to talk with often
I like to talk. I am looking for others who also enjoy talking. I can talk pretty much everyday. I am not looking for just 9-5 conversations but someone that can talk at night and weekends also.
I have many varied interests and hobbies, reading, exercising, travelling are among my top interests. Many more to discuss if we connect
I am from NJ near NYC
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Listening to the comments, the only real critique was being overdecorated in the living areas. Everyone had a great night sleep, it was the cheapest location, they had the most fun on the excursions, great outdoor space, everyone had their own bedroom, they didn’t intrude like some of the owners throughout the show. They seemed to have the best experience and overall stay at that location. Like even James had fun who seemed to have no personality the entire show haha, yet they gave it a 4…
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2021.11.28 01:47 Distinct_Signal_1555 New Characters, Same Old Song and Dance?

My previous relationships always ended in me (30sF) being cheated on and the one previous my current was abusive. My current partner (30sM) witnessed the end of my previous relationship and was my best friend and roommate while I recovered and sought therapy. We ended up starting a sexual relationship and eventually a romantic one. I have worked really hard on myself through our 5-6 year relationship but I’m noticing similar habits, I’m feeling uneasy about it. My ex texted women at all times, highly sexual texts and also physically cheated and was abusive. My current partner recently entertained a flame from the past for the last week and I accidentally discovered it. I was physically sick, I confronted him and made him tell her he messed up and that he was blocking her to save his future. He opted to use words like “regret” and “disgusting behavior”. He’s agreed to therapy and has been incredibly remorseful but I’m still angry and still disgusted.
I love this man, and in our time together this is his first transgression. My issue is this is how it all started with my ex. I don’t want to compare apples to oranges, but am I making a mistake? Should I be concerned that I’m allowing history to repeat or is this just a blip, a hiccup in our story?
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